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The divorce process can be an extremely stressful experience for you and your family. Even under the best of circumstances, it can leave you feeling exhausted and overwhelmed. Choosing mediation is a great first step towards making your no-fault divorce go as smoothly as possible.

But here are a few additional divorce mediation tips and, towards the bottom of the post, a divorce mediation checklist, to ensure your case stays on track and out of court.

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9 Divorce mediation tips and tricks:

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Tip #1: Hire a competent divorce mediator.

Not only do you need to make the decision to mediate, but you also have to decide which mediator or divorce mediation team you’re going to entrust to guide you through the process.

Maybe you think all divorce mediators are the same and it doesn’t matter who you work with, so you’ll just pick whoever is listed first in the directory or has the lowest hourly fee. But mediation is an unregulated profession in the United States, so you’ll need to be careful not to trust your divorce to just any mediators. The complex issues you will need to resolve requires expertise that only comes with training, certifications, continuing education and years of experience in the field.

Be sure to learn how to find a good divorce mediator because choosing a highly skilled, expert mediation team is the single most important tip to follow.

Doing so will ensure your divorce case avoids litigation in court and is as peaceful and cost-effective as possible.

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Tip #2: Be interested in, comfortable with and ready to make your own decisions.

Some people expect mediators to give them advice. Or tell them what to do. But that isn’t what happens in divorce mediation.

Divorce mediation is an alternative dispute resolution process whereby the divorce mediator will help you identify, understand, discuss, negotiate and resolve all of the issues that need to be resolved in your case (parenting plan and timesharing, child support, alimony / spousal support / spousal maintenance, division of marital property and debts and more). The mediator’s goal is to help you reach a settlement agreement you both find fair. But divorce mediators won’t give you legal advice or tell you what to do.

A mediator and a divorce attorney have very different roles and divorce mediation is very different than collaborative law (also referred to as collaborative divorce) and divorce litigation processes. All decisions made in a divorce mediation session will be made by you and will be fully within your control.

So the second of my tips for mediation is for a divorcing couple to enter into each session knowing what to expect in divorce mediation as far as the mediator’s role as well as their own.

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Tip #3: Actively participate in the divorce mediation process.

Since mediation is a voluntary process, it will not be successful if you or your spouse refuses to cooperate or actively participate. If your spouse wants to divorce you and you only agreed to mediate on the condition that they do all the work, divorce mediation just won’t be successful in your case.

In order for the divorce mediation process to be a viable option for your divorce, you must both be active participants.

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Tip #4: Be willing to compromise.

Some couples going through a divorce dig their heels in and have a “my way or the highway” mentality. But in order for any mediation session to go smoothly, you must both be willing to compromise to find the middle ground. Let me give you an example of how that would work so that both sides feel like they got something out of the deal.

Let’s say you’re at the part of your negotiations where you’re discussing the holiday timesharing plan, and your spouse says: “I want the kids for Thanksgiving every year.” Your first reaction might be: “Are you kidding me?! There’s no way I’m saying yes to that!” Do that and you look rigid and inflexible. While another reaction might be: “OK. Whatever you want, I guess.” Do that and you’ll feel like a sucker for giving in.

Neither is an ideal approach. Instead when your spouse asks to have the kids every Thanksgiving, counter their ask with an ask of your own.

For example: Your spouse says: “I want the kids for Thanksgiving every year.” You say: “OK, but in exchange, I want the kids every Christmas.” One of two things will happen. Either you’ll have a deal (what we in mediation call a win-win) or your spouse will say “no” to your ask. If they say no, then counter with: “OK, then what can you offer me in exchange for you having the kids every Thanksgiving?” Doing so will show you’re willing to consider their offer, but not simply give in.

And that’s what we in mediation call compromise.

You have to give to get so one of the best divorce mediation tips I have is to come into mediation being ready and willing to compromise during your negotiations.

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Tip #5: Take care of yourself emotionally, physically and mentally during divorce.

Divorce is one of the most traumatic events that you will likely ever experience in your life. And it can be downright impossible to fully deal with the physical, emotional and mental toll it can take on you. Operating under such an extreme level of stress often means not eating, not sleeping and living with constant worry, anxiety and negative mind chatter. This can ultimately lead to poor decision-making resulting in an unfair divorce settlement because instead of negotiating from a position of calm and strength, you’re making decisions out of anger or fear.

You can’t make life-altering decisions on topics such as your time sharing plan (child custody), support, or division of marital property and debts if you aren’t sleeping or eating. And you certainly can’t be there for your kids if you haven’t first taken care of yourself.

So don’t let yourself get too drained and exhausted to be able to think clearly and make sound decisions that are critical to your future (and that of your children).

Another of my tips for mediation is to enlist the help of a therapist or a divorce coach during this significant life event.

Doing so will help you be better equipped to get through this painful time in your life with confidence and give you the clarity you need to negotiate effectively and make good choices during (and after) your separation and divorce.

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Tip #6: Resist relying on the Internet as every state does things differently.

The Internet is not a reliable source of information when it comes to calculating alimony or child support. And while it might be tempting to search the Internet for information on how much alimony or child support you can expect to pay or receive in your settlement, resist the urge to do so.

For two reasons:

First, because the issues and the way they’re approached vary from state-to-state. It’s a big mistake to go online, find a guideline, and try and apply it to your case, especially if you don’t live in that state. I can’t tell you how many clients we get coming into our office with a paper in their hand saying, “But I like the California child support guideline, can’t we use it?” even though they live in Pennsylvania. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way. Every state has it’s own set of rules and you’ve got to follow those, not just the ones you like better.

And second, when it comes to determining support, there is a very good chance those calculators you found on the Internet may not be correct. For example, when it comes to child support, in all 50 states, child support calculators aren’t formulas, but rather, guidelines that suggest a minimum of amount of child support to be paid. And there are a number of things that aren’t even included. Then there’s the alimony calculators you see out there. There are websites that list them for all 50 states. But guess what? As of this writing, only a handful of states I know of have guidelines for alimony So basically, the other guidelines could be guesses, opinions, or outright lies.

And even the states that have some sort of guidelines, they may not be applicable in all situations. Not only that, but they also can be open to interpretation and negotiation (just as with child support). There is a lot of incorrect information on the Internet, no two divorces are the same and these issues are way too complex to try to figure out yourself.

A helpful tip for a successful divorce mediation is for you and your spouse to wait for your family mediator to guide you through these topics.

This way, you and your spouse will be aware of how the issues apply to your case in your state and you can then make informed decisions for your mediation agreement that are right for your particular situation.

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Tip #7: Don’t involve friends/family in your divorce mediation.

When it comes to divorce and financial matters such as support, there’s a lot of misinformation out there. And if it doesn’t come from the Internet, it comes from friends and family. And while they may have your best interests in mind, it’s unlikely the advice they’ll give you will be based in fact or reality.

Then there’s the issue of bias. Naturally, they care about you and will want to make you feel better, so they’re going to take your side and tell you whatever you want to hear. But are you really sure you want to base your future on opinions or judgment?

One of the biggest mistakes you can make is coming into mediation firmly entrenched in your position because of something you read on the Internet or heard from family or friends. Because you’ll be convinced that your information is the right information and so you’ll go forth negotiating as if you have the truth on your side. But the problem is that this “information” came to you unverified or from an un-reputable source. So unwittingly, you will have handed over your financial future to an unqualified friend, family member or worse yet, a total stranger like a divorce attorney or court judge.

One of the important tips for mediation is to resist the urge to discuss the details of your divorce proceedings with friends and family.

Instead, lean on them for emotional support instead. And wait for the divorce mediation process to get the information necessary to make educated decisions on these important issues.

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Tip #8: Don’t make financial commitments before your divorce agreement is worked out.

Sometimes, when couples are able to speak with each other outside of session, it can lead to better decision making and quicker progress. But as much as communicating outside of mediation sessions can sometimes be positive, there are also times when talking (and more specifically making decisions) outside of session can do more harm than good. In all of the states we practice in, both equitable distribution states and community property states, the parties are encouraged to actively participate in, and come to agreement on, the fair division of their marital assets and liabilities. But unless you and your spouse are experts in the financial matters pertaining to divorce, this can be a dangerous path to walk.

Divorce is a difficult process so it’s normal to want to get through it as quickly as you can. And you might think that you can help speed the process if you and your soon-to-be ex try to make as many decisions as possible before you start mediation.

But given the financial complexities of divorce, you can’t decide what a fair and equitable settlement looks like until you first have all the facts.

Then there are the parties who fall into the trap of thinking the best way to divide up assets and liabilities is by splitting each item down the middle. That can lead to thousands of dollars in additional fees that wouldn’t have been necessary if they had waited for an expert mediator skilled in the finances of divorce to offer alternative more efficient options.

Finally, there are the tax consequences of divorce. Assets and liabilities can each have different tax consequences and if not properly accounted for, a divorce settlement that might look fair on paper may turn out to be favorable to only one party and not the other. This can happen if one party trades a checking account for a 401k, confusing pre-tax with post-tax dollars, or when there are stocks involved and neither party is aware of the cost basis of a given portfolio.

That’s why working with a mediator skilled in the finances of divorce is critical. Not only to help streamline your negotiations, but to help you avoid unexpected and unpleasant surprises from the IRS.

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Tip #9: Engage in a good faith divorce negotiation.

Because mediation is a transparent process, you and your spouse will both need to be prepared to engage in a good faith negotiation. That means you’ll need to reveal and openly disclose all relevant information, whether financial or otherwise, to the mediator and to your divorcing spouse. And ensure that the information is accurate, complete and truthful to the best of your knowledge. If you and/or your spouse is hiding a marital asset, defrauding the other or not being honest, not only will you not have a successful mediation, but you won’t be able to complete your negotiations using mediation at all.

So if you want to avoid being embroiled in expensive, time-consuming and stressful court battle with your spouse and your respective family law attorney, choose to follow this divorce mediation tip.

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Divorce mediation checklist:

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A mediator’s ability to effectively help you during mediation relies greatly on how promptly, thoroughly and accurately you’ve prepared in advance.

To get a head start preparing for divorce mediation, here’s a divorce mediation checklist of documents to begin gathering:

• Tax returns (Federal & State)
• Pay stubs
• W-2’s and/or 1099’s
• Partnerships & other business interests valuation
• Real estate property valuation
• Vehicles, boats, trailers valuation
• Savings, checking, money market and CD accounts
• Non-retirement investments such as stocks, bonds, secured notes, mutual funds
• Executive compensation – stock options, RSUs or other executive comp
• Retirement accounts and pensions
• Annuities, IRAs, deferred compensation
• Life insurance (whole life policies)
• Jewelry, antiques, art, coin collections, or other property with significant value
• Accounts receivable & unsecured notes
• Real estate loans
• Credit cards and revolving credit
• Other loans and debts
• Depending on the state you live in, homeowner insurance policy information, auto insurance information, health insurance information, and other information may also be needed

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Frequently Asked Questions

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Mediation is an unregulated profession in the United States, and every mediator has their own approach. We can only speak to how divorce mediation works with us.

Strategy Session

Our mediation process starts with a strategy meeting – the first meeting between you, your spouse, and Joe, your mediator, to set goals and develop the plan for your negotiations. During this meeting, he will share what you can expect throughout the process and tips for how to get an optimal outcome. You and your spouse will each have the opportunity to voice your most pressing concerns and goals for mediation.

Joe will then work with you both to develop a tailored plan for addressing each issue throughout your negotiations, determining the most effective sequence for resolving matters regarding your children, finances, property, and future.

Having a complete financial picture allows Joe to understand your situation and create options to explore during negotiations that best serve your family’s needs. At the end of the strategy session, Joe will walk you through what financial information is needed prior to each mediation session.

Mediation Sessions

After completing your initial financial work, you’ll schedule your first session. During this and subsequent meetings as needed, Joe will help you work through and resolve all necessary aspects of your divorce including a parenting plan, child support, alimony, and division of property and debts.

He will listen to each of your wants, needs, concerns, and goals, formulate ideas, create options, and work together with you to develop fair and equitable solutions. Drawing on his financial expertise, he’ll provide guidance about the financial matters relating to your divorce so you know what your financial picture will look like moving forward.

In areas where agreement proves challenging, Joe will employ various conflict resolution techniques to help you and your spouse communicate more effectively, understand each other’s interests, and negotiate toward mutually agreeable solutions.

After each session, Joe will outline specific tasks to prepare for your next meeting – whether that’s gathering financial documents or considering options discussed. This step-by-step approach keeps the process manageable and productive. You can easily submit all documents through our secure online portal.

Drafting of the Agreement

Once all necessary issues have been resolved and your negotiations have concluded, Joe will draft a comprehensive document called a Memorandum of Understanding detailing all agreements, along with a host of other supporting documents. This paperwork will outline the terms of your divorce.

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Mediation can resolve all of the issues necessary for a couple’s divorce including, but not limited to:

• A parenting plan outlining parental responsibilities and time sharing arrangements for co-parenting children post-divorce. (some refer to this as custody)
• Child support. (which is the financial support each parent will provide the children)
• The division of marital assets and liabilities. (also referred to as either equitable distribution or community property, depending on the state where the divorce is taking place)
• And how much, and for how long alimony will be paid or received. (alimony may also be referred to as either spousal support, maintenance, or spousal maintenance, depending on the state where the couple is getting a divorce)

Along with the four main issues listed above, mediation can help resolve a host of other important issues related to your unique situation or circumstances.

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Every mediator’s process (if they have one) is different, so we can only speak to how long divorce mediation takes working with us.

Most couples complete their mediation in 3 – 5 sessions, meeting with Joe every other week. On average, divorce mediation takes 2 – 3 months. The speed of our divorce mediation process is largely within your control. Your timeline will depend on the complexities of your case, how quickly you complete the required financial work between sessions, ease in coordinating your schedules, and pace in reaching decisions.

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Every private mediator has their own fee structure, and divorce mediation cost and fees vary significantly based on the experience and skill level of the mediator, the scope of their mediation services and individual case complexities. They also vary from state-to-state.

Our mediation fees are tailored to each couple’s unique situation and case complexity. Even our most comprehensive packages typically cost less than what you’d spend on two attorney retainers.

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Our sessions take place via Zoom. Online mediation provides a flexible, convenient and efficient dispute resolution solution. In fact, we pioneered online divorce mediation and have been successfully mediating in this format since 2011.

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There is no legal requirement that you must have a divorce attorney, and many people specifically choose mediation because they want to divorce without a lawyer. However, depending on their professional background and approach, some mediators do require each spouse to hire a lawyer to consult with throughout mediation.

While attorney consultation is not required in our mediation process, we fully support clients who wish to seek legal counsel at any stage. Our focus is on empowering you to make informed decisions in whatever way works best for your situation.

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No! You do not need to have everything decided before starting mediation. The only thing you need to agree on is the decision itself to mediate your divorce. In fact, many couples specifically wait until mediation to negotiate the issues.

Divorce is a complex matter, and you may not “know what you don’t know” when it comes to the issues you need to identify, discuss and resolve in order to come to a complete agreement. By working with Joe, you can be assured that everything will be discussed thoroughly – in the proper order and given the necessary time and attention it deserves.

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Whether you are divorcing or separating, our mediation process is the same. The difference is in what you choose to do with your mediation agreement after the process is completed.

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Starting mediation with us begins with a simple first step – scheduling an initial meeting for you and your spouse. This meeting gives you a chance to share your situation, ask questions, and learn about our mediation process in a private, no-pressure setting. It also helps us understand how we can best support your unique needs.

** Available to couples whose divorce or separation will take place in California, Illinois, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, or Washington State.

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You and your children will benefit when you choose divorce mediation.

Mediation is more Peaceful: A mediator guides couples to attack problems, not each other – fostering respectful dialog and win-win solutions. This approach paves the way for a peaceful, amicable divorce that benefits both spouses and their children.

Fair and Equitable: One party cannot “win” at the expense of the other as resolutions must emerge from the process with a divorce settlement created and acceptable to both parties.

Less Expensive: The cost of divorce mediation is significantly less than traditional divorce litigation, the collaborative divorce process, or a court trial.

Better for Children: Children aren’t caught in the middle of a confrontational family court process or traumatic heated custody battle. Instead, parents work together to resolve the issues in a way that’s best for their family. A non-adversarial approach fosters more agreement, improved communication, better parenting plans and a better co-parenting relationship.

Better Results: Couples who mediate are more satisfied with the terms of their divorce because they were mutually agreed upon.

Dignified: Instead of the cold, traditional court process where a couple is treated like a case file or docket number, mediation is a kinder, more human process. Divorce mediation allows couples to end their marriage while maintaining self-respect and dignity.

Private and Confidential: In a private mediation session, everything is confidential. No one will know what’s being discussed except the two spouses and their mediator. Unlike a litigated divorce, where everything submitted to the family law court is part of the public record.

Divorce Faster: The pace of the process is controlled by the parties, instead of being at the mercy of a lawyer’s or a judge’s schedule.

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Ultimately, the payment arrangement is up to the couple to decide together. Most frequently, couples split the mediation costs equally between them, as the mediator works with both spouses together to help them reach agreements. This 50-50 split often feels fair to most people since they each benefit from the process.

Another approach is to share mediation costs in a ratio based on each spouse’s income. For instance, if one spouse earns twice as much as the other, they might pay two-thirds of the cost while the lower-earning spouse pays one-third. This income-based split can make mediation more accessible for couples with significant income differences. Occasionally, one spouse may choose to pay the entire cost of mediation, though this is less common.

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No, a mediator cannot give legal advice. Some people think if they hire a divorce mediation attorney, which is another way of saying a lawyer who practices mediation, that the “attorney-mediator” can provide legal advice.

But that is not the case. Because when they are in the role of a divorce mediator, a lawyer cannot dispense legal advice – regardless of their professional background.

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There’s a lot more to these divorce methods and how they work, but here are just a few of the many differences between divorce mediation vs a lawyer.

In attorney-driven divorces, each spouse hires their own respective attorney to represent them.

The two lawyers will argue back and forth in court on issues of child custody and a parenting plan, division of property, alimony and child support. Each divorce lawyer will create strategies to fight and weaken the other party’s position in order to “win” the divorce case for their respective client – even if it’s at the detriment of the other spouse, the couple’s children or the overall health of the family unit.

Traditional divorce litigation using attorneys is adversarial, lengthy, and expensive.

In divorce mediation, both spouses work with one mediator.

The divorce mediator does not take sides and does not give legal advice – they are a neutral third party. The mediator helps both spouses communicate, negotiate directly (privately and out of court) and resolve all issues that pertain to their divorce. Couples have the opportunity to voice their individual concerns, be heard and have direct input into the terms of their divorce settlement agreement.

In mediation, there is no “win-lose” as a skilled divorce mediator helps the couple reach fair and amicable solutions that prioritize the well-being of children. Mediation is a more peaceful, less costly, confidential divorce method that takes significantly less time and produces better outcomes.

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There are many differences between divorce mediation and collaborative law including cost, time to complete and approach.

The Collaborative Law Process is a hybrid between a traditional attorney-led divorce and divorce mediation.

Each party retains their own respective lawyer trained in the collaborative process to represent them. Both spouses and their respective counsel sign a contract called a “participation agreement” that states that they are all committed to using cooperative techniques rather than combative tactics to resolve custody, support, etc.

In the Collaborative Process, a series of meetings take place between both spouses and both lawyers and possibly other outside professionals such as a divorce coach or therapist, child specialist, accountants or financial planners as needed to negotiate and try to come to agreement on the issues. If agreement cannot successfully be reached on all relevant divorce issues using the Collaborative Divorce Process, the lawyers will be disqualified from representing the two parties as they continue into the litigation process.

While for some problematic cases, Collaborative Process can be worth a try before resorting to divorce litigation, but it can get very expensive and drawn-out, and there are no guarantees of success.

In the process of mediation, there are three participants working together in direct negotiations: each spouse and one mediator.

The mediator is neutral and does not represent either spouse. They help the two parties negotiate directly to resolve all required issues pertaining to their divorce. Couples have direct input into the terms of their agreement. In mediation, there is no “us against them” as the goal of mediation is to help the parties reach an agreement they are both satisfied with and that keeps their children front and center.

Mediation delivers better outcomes for divorcing couples and their kids, takes less time to complete and is less expensive than a collaborative divorce.

Learn more about divorce mediator vs collaborative law.

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During the negotiation phase of the process, mediation is not yet binding. But once all issues in your divorce are resolved and agreed upon, drafted into a proper document by a qualified professional, signed by both parties (both spouses), and approved by the courts, the agreements made will become binding in a couple’s divorce decree.

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After a couple reaches agreement on all issues in mediation, the final step is completing the formal court process to end the marriage. However, the time to finalize a divorce after mediation varies significantly by state and sometimes even by county, as each jurisdiction has its own requirements.

For example, in New Jersey, there is no waiting period. The process simply requires the couple’s filing professional to submit the court paperwork and await a court date, which typically takes 8 to 12 weeks. In contrast, California has a mandatory 6-month waiting period. This means that even after completing all required paperwork, couples must wait an additional 6 months before receiving their final judgment of divorce.

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Divorce mediation is a viable option for couples who meet all of the following criteria:

• Couples who want an experienced professional to help them identify and discuss the issues while retaining full control over the decisions they will make and full control over their settlement agreement;

An experienced divorce mediator will help the parties identify the issues and present a number of possible solutions, but will not give the parties legal advice or tell either party what to do.

• Couples who are willing to engage in an honest and good faith negotiation;

Mediation is a transparent process so both parties must be willing to openly disclose all relevant information, whether financial or otherwise, to the mediator and to the other party and ensure the information is accurate, complete and truthful to the best of their knowledge. If either party is hiding assets or defrauding the other, mediation should not be used.

• Couples where both spouses are willing to voluntarily attend and actively participate in mediation;

If one party wants to mediate but the other does not, mediation will not be a viable option for that couple’s divorce.

• Spouses who are both mentally capable of making their own decisions;

Each party must be of sound mind and have the capacity to think, reason and understand for him/herself. Learn who we help.

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• One spouse is incapacitated
  Mediation centers on “self-determination” – the ability of both parties to make decisions in their own best interests. If they’re mentally incapacitated in any way, mediation will not be a viable option.

• There’s domestic violence or safety concerns
  If there’s a restraining order in effect, it may make mediating impossible. Or maybe there’s such a significant power imbalance that one spouse is afraid to express their true needs for fear of retribution from the other side. If a party has safety concerns, mediation will not be a viable option.

• A party has concerns that assets or debts are being concealed.
  Mediation is a good faith negotiation and requires transparency. So if one party is concerned the other is hiding assets or debts, or their business dealings aren’t above bar, mediation is not recommended.

• One spouse refuses to participate
  Because mediation is voluntary, both spouses must be willing to at least give it a try. Active participation is one of the requirements for making mediation work.

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Divorce mediation is an unregulated profession and there’s no such thing as a certified mediator (other than a term some mediation associations designate to their members), so it’s also critically important to hire a good mediator.

There are four characteristics of an experienced and competent mediator for divorce:

1. The ability to expertly guide two opposing parties through a complex negotiation and ultimately to settlement while remaining neutral at all times;
2. The ability to create a series of settlement options for the parties to discuss and consider based on the mediator’s involvement with a variety of other cases similar to theirs;
3. A command of the complex financial matters surrounding divorce;
4. A comprehensive knowledge of and ability to remain current on the issues that may impact a couple’s divorce agreement.

Some attorneys feel that attending law school provides them with the skills they need in order to practice mediation. But while they may have a grasp of family law matters, they may not know how to be an effective mediator or remain fully neutral. They also may not have the financial acumen required to resolve the many complex financial issues surrounding a divorce dispute.

The key is to choose a mediator who has been professionally trained, knows the issues that need resolution, is truly neutral, has mediated hundreds of cases and is skilled in resolving the complex financial matters surrounding divorce.

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Most people think the total cost of divorce mediation is determined solely by the mediator’s hourly rate. And while it might be hard to believe, the hourly rate of the mediator only has some (but not much) bearing on what your divorce mediation cost will ultimately be.

So if it’s not only the hourly rate of the mediator, what other factors should a divorcing couple be concerned about?

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How much does mediation cost and what contributes to it?

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In addition to the mediator’s hourly rate, there are at least three other factors that contribute to how much your divorce mediation will cost you. They are:

• The competency, skill level, and experience of the mediator;
• The services provided by the divorce mediator;
• The thoroughness of the mediator’s process.

Let’s take a closer look at each of these factors and how each contributes to average divorce mediation cost.

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1. The competency, skill level, and experience of the divorce mediator is a factor in the cost of mediation

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Divorce mediation is an unregulated profession in the United States. That means anyone can call themselves a mediator. But just because someone calls themself a mediator doesn’t mean they’re competent or qualified to do so. Even with training, or community mediation experience, there’s no guarantee someone will have the experience needed to mediate your case successfully.

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What does it take to be a competent and experienced divorce mediator?

There are four characteristics an experienced and competent mediator must possess:

• The ability to expertly guide two divorcing parties through a complex negotiation and ultimately to settlement while remaining neutral at all times;
• The ability to create a series of settlement options for the parties to discuss and consider based on the mediator’s involvement with a variety of other cases similar to theirs;
• A command of the complex financial matters surrounding divorce;
• Comprehensive knowledge of and ability to remain current on the issues that may impact a couple’s divorce settlement.

You’ll rarely find expert mediators like us who practice divorce mediation full-time and possess all of the skills described above. It’s more likely you’ll come across mental health professionals and divorce lawyers claiming to be divorce mediators. But when you take a closer look at what it takes to be a competent mediator for divorce, you’ll see things don’t quite add up.

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Mental health professionals aren’t good with numbers

While marriage and family therapists are generally good about remaining neutral, given they’re only mediating a fraction of the time, their experience is slow to come. And most every mental health professional we know has told us they’re not good with the “money stuff” and was actually the reason they stopped attempting to mediate. For the ones who are still mediating, this is bad news for their clients because three of the four matters in divorce directly involve money.

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Attorney-mediators have difficulty remaining neutral

While they may have a command of divorce and family law, divorce attorney mediators fall short in two of the four competency areas. The biggest being neutrality. Yet the ability to remain a neutral third party (and not give legal advice) is the number one requirement of being a competent mediator.

And when it comes to creating options and guiding parties towards settlement, they’re usually in the “tell, don’t ask” camp. That’s a big problem since a cornerstone of divorce and family mediation is enabling the parties to control the terms of their marital settlement agreement, not dispensing legal advice or telling them what to do.

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What does competency and experience have to do with the cost of divorce mediation?

When not handled properly, you might find yourself facing unexpected legal consequences and agreement oversights that can end up costing you more down the road.

Think about it – what if your mediator lacks the expertise to help you reach a fair agreement? Or if they aren’t truly neutral, offer inappropriate advice, or leave you feeling uncomfortable with your settlement terms?

In these situations, you’d likely need to hire another private mediator to help fix these issues—meaning more time and money spent. In the worst-case scenario, you might even find yourself in the court system potentially facing thousands in legal fees on top of what you’ve already invested in mediation that didn’t work out.

The good news? Working with an experienced, skilled divorce mediator makes all the difference. With the right mediator, you won’t face those extra costs or frustrations because your mediation will succeed and your divorce will be handled properly from the start.

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2. Understanding how the differences in divorce mediation services affect the cost of mediation

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What do the services provided by the mediator have to do with cost?

Everything a mediator can do “in-house” at the time of your mediation and includes in the cost of mediation services saves you and your spouse money, time, and stress. Here are a few examples.

Support for divorce emotions:

Many mediators don’t offer services to help you deal with the intense anger and sadness that often accompanies divorce. Fail to manage them constructively and there’s a good chance you’ll find yourself in court. Spending hundreds of thousands of dollars and wasting years of your life while you, your spouse and your lawyers battle it out in traditional divorce litigation.

But if you find divorce mediators who are skilled in managing divorce emotions and also have a divorce coach available to you throughout the mediation process, it will provide you with the emotional support you need to make the negotiation phase of mediation more productive and improve your settlement outcome.

The thoroughness of the negotiations:

Some mediators will ask you and your spouse what you want your agreement to look like and they’ll write down whatever you say.

But a mediator that offers a comprehensive private mediation service will:

• Expertly and actively guide you through a series of in-depth negotiations on the issues you and your spouse (and your children) face at the time of your divorce;
• Make sure you discuss and come to agreement on all topics required to peacefully and cost-effectively required to end your marriage – even the ones you’re not aware of;
• Bring to the table a variety of creative options you may not have considered as potential solutions to an issue;
• And “future-proof” your divorce or separation agreement by providing guidance and a framework for what to do when circumstances change.

Working with an expert mediator will eliminate the need for you and your spouse to return to mediation (or worse yet, court) years after your divorce to discuss something that wasn’t covered at the time of your divorce and pay extra court fees.

The drafting of the agreement:

Some mediators prepare a very basic agreement that leaves out specifics. And some only prepare a bulleted list. You would then need to pay a drafting attorney an additional few thousand dollars to rewrite your agreement so its intentions are clear.

But if you hire the right mediator and that mediator is highly skilled, he’ll draft a comprehensive document called a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) which outlines in great detail all agreements made during your mediation work. This way you and your spouse know exactly what you both agreed to, have a plan to follow when a specific situation that was discussed in a mediation session arises in the future.

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3. The divorce mediation process – or lack of one – also contributes to the cost

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A mediation process includes a series of forms, worksheets, and systems that, in conjunction with an organized approach to document gathering and negotiation, results in a peaceful, fair, child-focused, thorough, and cost-effective divorce agreement.

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Why is a thorough process so critical to keeping costs in line?

The divorce process is very complicated, requires a lot of paperwork, and has a lot of moving parts. Not only that but there will be hundreds of life-changing decisions you and your spouse will need to make. You’ll want to be sure that all of the steps required are covered and carried out in a timely and efficient manner. And completed correctly and in the right order.

A thorough divorce mediation process can go a long way towards making sure all divorce issues are covered properly and in the right order so both divorcing spouses can complete mediation in a timely, productive, and cost-effective fashion.

Some mediators employ very little, if any, process.

They may give you a high-level list of documents to gather or worksheets to fill out and tell you to come back when you’re done. But they won’t tell you where to find these documents or how to complete the worksheets. They may ask you to prepare a budget. Or to do an accounting of your marital assets and liabilities. But again, offer no guidance on what they mean or how to do this.

Some mediators may give you a list of documents to gather and bring to your sessions. They then have you fill out forms and worksheets in session so they can rack up billable hours. Or, they may simply start meeting with you and your spouse without a clear agenda outlining what topics need to be covered in a particular mediation session. Your mediation will take much longer than is necessary and you will have wasted time and incurred additional costs because the mediator didn’t give you the instruction and guidance you needed to have a productive outcome.

On the other hand, working with a mediator who has a thorough process can:

• Ensure you and your spouse correctly complete all needed forms and worksheets and submit all required information the mediator will need to effectively assist you;
• Prepare you both to have a fair and productive negotiation;
• Prevent you from having to return to court in the future to discuss an asset or liability that wasn’t discussed during your divorce negotiations. Or miss out on something you may have been entitled to a share of.
• Help you complete your proceedings in a reasonable period of time instead of letting them drag on forever.

Making your divorce mediation cost-effective, efficient, and productive.

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How much does divorce mediation cost? Now you know the real truth!

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Now you know there is so much more to the cost of divorce mediation beyond the mediator’s hourly rate. So if you want to fully understand what your divorce mediation costs will ultimately be, you also need to factor in:

1. The competency, skill level, and experience of the mediator;
2. The scope of services provided by the mediator;
3. The thoroughness of the mediator’s process.

Before you hire a mediator for your uncontested divorce based solely on their hourly rate or the low fee they might have quoted you over the phone, do your research and make sure you’re comparing “apples to apples.”

Hire a mediator who is experienced, highly skilled, provides a comprehensive service and has a thorough process.

That’s the only way to ultimately ensure your divorce mediation will be as cost-effective as possible.

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Frequently Asked Questions

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Mediation is an unregulated profession in the United States, and every mediator has their own approach. We can only speak to how divorce mediation works with us.

Strategy Session

Our mediation process starts with a strategy meeting – the first meeting between you, your spouse, and Joe, your mediator, to set goals and develop the plan for your negotiations. During this meeting, he will share what you can expect throughout the process and tips for how to get an optimal outcome. You and your spouse will each have the opportunity to voice your most pressing concerns and goals for mediation.

Joe will then work with you both to develop a tailored plan for addressing each issue throughout your negotiations, determining the most effective sequence for resolving matters regarding your children, finances, property, and future.

Having a complete financial picture allows Joe to understand your situation and create options to explore during negotiations that best serve your family’s needs. At the end of the strategy session, Joe will walk you through what financial information is needed prior to each mediation session.

Mediation Sessions

After completing your initial financial work, you’ll schedule your first session. During this and subsequent meetings as needed, Joe will help you work through and resolve all necessary aspects of your divorce including a parenting plan, child support, alimony, and division of property and debts.

He will listen to each of your wants, needs, concerns, and goals, formulate ideas, create options, and work together with you to develop fair and equitable solutions. Drawing on his financial expertise, he’ll provide guidance about the financial matters relating to your divorce so you know what your financial picture will look like moving forward.

In areas where agreement proves challenging, Joe will employ various conflict resolution techniques to help you and your spouse communicate more effectively, understand each other’s interests, and negotiate toward mutually agreeable solutions.

After each session, Joe will outline specific tasks to prepare for your next meeting – whether that’s gathering financial documents or considering options discussed. This step-by-step approach keeps the process manageable and productive. You can easily submit all documents through our secure online portal.

Drafting of the Agreement

Once all necessary issues have been resolved and your negotiations have concluded, Joe will draft a comprehensive document called a Memorandum of Understanding detailing all agreements, along with a host of other supporting documents. This paperwork will outline the terms of your divorce.

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Mediation can resolve all of the issues necessary for a couple’s divorce including, but not limited to:

• A parenting plan outlining parental responsibilities and time sharing arrangements for co-parenting children post-divorce. (some refer to this as custody)
• Child support. (which is the financial support each parent will provide the children)
• The division of marital assets and liabilities. (also referred to as either equitable distribution or community property, depending on the state where the divorce is taking place)
• And how much, and for how long alimony will be paid or received. (alimony may also be referred to as either spousal support, maintenance, or spousal maintenance, depending on the state where the couple is getting a divorce)

Along with the four main issues listed above, mediation can help resolve a host of other important issues related to your unique situation or circumstances.

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Every mediator’s process (if they have one) is different, so we can only speak to how long divorce mediation takes working with us.

Most couples complete their mediation in 3 – 5 sessions, meeting with Joe every other week. On average, divorce mediation takes 2 – 3 months. The speed of our divorce mediation process is largely within your control. Your timeline will depend on the complexities of your case, how quickly you complete the required financial work between sessions, ease in coordinating your schedules, and pace in reaching decisions.

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Every private mediator has their own fee structure, and divorce mediation cost and fees vary significantly based on the experience and skill level of the mediator, the scope of their mediation services and individual case complexities. They also vary from state-to-state.

Our mediation fees are tailored to each couple’s unique situation and case complexity. Even our most comprehensive packages typically cost less than what you’d spend on two attorney retainers.

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Our sessions take place via Zoom. Online mediation provides a flexible, convenient and efficient dispute resolution solution. In fact, we pioneered online divorce mediation and have been successfully mediating in this format since 2011.

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There is no legal requirement that you must have a divorce attorney, and many people specifically choose mediation because they want to divorce without a lawyer. However, depending on their professional background and approach, some mediators do require each spouse to hire a lawyer to consult with throughout mediation.

While attorney consultation is not required in our mediation process, we fully support clients who wish to seek legal counsel at any stage. Our focus is on empowering you to make informed decisions in whatever way works best for your situation.

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No! You do not need to have everything decided before starting mediation. The only thing you need to agree on is the decision itself to mediate your divorce. In fact, many couples specifically wait until mediation to negotiate the issues.

Divorce is a complex matter, and you may not “know what you don’t know” when it comes to the issues you need to identify, discuss and resolve in order to come to a complete agreement. By working with Joe, you can be assured that everything will be discussed thoroughly – in the proper order and given the necessary time and attention it deserves.

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Whether you are divorcing or separating, our mediation process is the same. The difference is in what you choose to do with your mediation agreement after the process is completed.

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Starting mediation with us begins with a simple first step – scheduling an initial meeting for you and your spouse. This meeting gives you a chance to share your situation, ask questions, and learn about our mediation process in a private, no-pressure setting. It also helps us understand how we can best support your unique needs.

** Available to couples whose divorce or separation will take place in California, Illinois, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, or Washington State.

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You and your children will benefit when you choose divorce mediation.

Mediation is more Peaceful: A mediator guides couples to attack problems, not each other – fostering respectful dialog and win-win solutions. This approach paves the way for a peaceful, amicable divorce that benefits both spouses and their children.

Fair and Equitable: One party cannot “win” at the expense of the other as resolutions must emerge from the process with a divorce settlement created and acceptable to both parties.

Less Expensive: The cost of divorce mediation is significantly less than traditional divorce litigation, the collaborative divorce process, or a court trial.

Better for Children: Children aren’t caught in the middle of a confrontational family court process or traumatic heated custody battle. Instead, parents work together to resolve the issues in a way that’s best for their family. A non-adversarial approach fosters more agreement, improved communication, better parenting plans and a better co-parenting relationship.

Better Results: Couples who mediate are more satisfied with the terms of their divorce because they were mutually agreed upon.

Dignified: Instead of the cold, traditional court process where a couple is treated like a case file or docket number, mediation is a kinder, more human process. Divorce mediation allows couples to end their marriage while maintaining self-respect and dignity.

Private and Confidential: In a private mediation session, everything is confidential. No one will know what’s being discussed except the two spouses and their mediator. Unlike a litigated divorce, where everything submitted to the family law court is part of the public record.

Divorce Faster: The pace of the process is controlled by the parties, instead of being at the mercy of a lawyer’s or a judge’s schedule.

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Ultimately, the payment arrangement is up to the couple to decide together. Most frequently, couples split the mediation costs equally between them, as the mediator works with both spouses together to help them reach agreements. This 50-50 split often feels fair to most people since they each benefit from the process.

Another approach is to share mediation costs in a ratio based on each spouse’s income. For instance, if one spouse earns twice as much as the other, they might pay two-thirds of the cost while the lower-earning spouse pays one-third. This income-based split can make mediation more accessible for couples with significant income differences. Occasionally, one spouse may choose to pay the entire cost of mediation, though this is less common.

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No, a mediator cannot give legal advice. Some people think if they hire a divorce mediation attorney, which is another way of saying a lawyer who practices mediation, that the “attorney-mediator” can provide legal advice.

But that is not the case. Because when they are in the role of a divorce mediator, a lawyer cannot dispense legal advice – regardless of their professional background.

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There’s a lot more to these divorce methods and how they work, but here are just a few of the many differences between divorce mediation vs a lawyer.

In attorney-driven divorces, each spouse hires their own respective attorney to represent them.

The two lawyers will argue back and forth in court on issues of child custody and a parenting plan, division of property, alimony and child support. Each divorce lawyer will create strategies to fight and weaken the other party’s position in order to “win” the divorce case for their respective client – even if it’s at the detriment of the other spouse, the couple’s children or the overall health of the family unit.

Traditional divorce litigation using attorneys is adversarial, lengthy, and expensive.

In divorce mediation, both spouses work with one mediator.

The divorce mediator does not take sides and does not give legal advice – they are a neutral third party. The mediator helps both spouses communicate, negotiate directly (privately and out of court) and resolve all issues that pertain to their divorce. Couples have the opportunity to voice their individual concerns, be heard and have direct input into the terms of their divorce settlement agreement.

In mediation, there is no “win-lose” as a skilled divorce mediator helps the couple reach fair and amicable solutions that prioritize the well-being of children. Mediation is a more peaceful, less costly, confidential divorce method that takes significantly less time and produces better outcomes.

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There are many differences between divorce mediation and collaborative law including cost, time to complete and approach.

The Collaborative Law Process is a hybrid between a traditional attorney-led divorce and divorce mediation.

Each party retains their own respective lawyer trained in the collaborative process to represent them. Both spouses and their respective counsel sign a contract called a “participation agreement” that states that they are all committed to using cooperative techniques rather than combative tactics to resolve custody, support, etc.

In the Collaborative Process, a series of meetings take place between both spouses and both lawyers and possibly other outside professionals such as a divorce coach or therapist, child specialist, accountants or financial planners as needed to negotiate and try to come to agreement on the issues. If agreement cannot successfully be reached on all relevant divorce issues using the Collaborative Divorce Process, the lawyers will be disqualified from representing the two parties as they continue into the litigation process.

While for some problematic cases, Collaborative Process can be worth a try before resorting to divorce litigation, but it can get very expensive and drawn-out, and there are no guarantees of success.

In the process of mediation, there are three participants working together in direct negotiations: each spouse and one mediator.

The mediator is neutral and does not represent either spouse. They help the two parties negotiate directly to resolve all required issues pertaining to their divorce. Couples have direct input into the terms of their agreement. In mediation, there is no “us against them” as the goal of mediation is to help the parties reach an agreement they are both satisfied with and that keeps their children front and center.

Mediation delivers better outcomes for divorcing couples and their kids, takes less time to complete and is less expensive than a collaborative divorce.

Learn more about divorce mediator vs collaborative law.

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During the negotiation phase of the process, mediation is not yet binding. But once all issues in your divorce are resolved and agreed upon, drafted into a proper document by a qualified professional, signed by both parties (both spouses), and approved by the courts, the agreements made will become binding in a couple’s divorce decree.

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After a couple reaches agreement on all issues in mediation, the final step is completing the formal court process to end the marriage. However, the time to finalize a divorce after mediation varies significantly by state and sometimes even by county, as each jurisdiction has its own requirements.

For example, in New Jersey, there is no waiting period. The process simply requires the couple’s filing professional to submit the court paperwork and await a court date, which typically takes 8 to 12 weeks. In contrast, California has a mandatory 6-month waiting period. This means that even after completing all required paperwork, couples must wait an additional 6 months before receiving their final judgment of divorce.

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Divorce mediation is a viable option for couples who meet all of the following criteria:

• Couples who want an experienced professional to help them identify and discuss the issues while retaining full control over the decisions they will make and full control over their settlement agreement;

An experienced divorce mediator will help the parties identify the issues and present a number of possible solutions, but will not give the parties legal advice or tell either party what to do.

• Couples who are willing to engage in an honest and good faith negotiation;

Mediation is a transparent process so both parties must be willing to openly disclose all relevant information, whether financial or otherwise, to the mediator and to the other party and ensure the information is accurate, complete and truthful to the best of their knowledge. If either party is hiding assets or defrauding the other, mediation should not be used.

• Couples where both spouses are willing to voluntarily attend and actively participate in mediation;

If one party wants to mediate but the other does not, mediation will not be a viable option for that couple’s divorce.

• Spouses who are both mentally capable of making their own decisions;

Each party must be of sound mind and have the capacity to think, reason and understand for him/herself. Learn who we help.

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• One spouse is incapacitated
  Mediation centers on “self-determination” – the ability of both parties to make decisions in their own best interests. If they’re mentally incapacitated in any way, mediation will not be a viable option.

• There’s domestic violence or safety concerns
  If there’s a restraining order in effect, it may make mediating impossible. Or maybe there’s such a significant power imbalance that one spouse is afraid to express their true needs for fear of retribution from the other side. If a party has safety concerns, mediation will not be a viable option.

• A party has concerns that assets or debts are being concealed.
  Mediation is a good faith negotiation and requires transparency. So if one party is concerned the other is hiding assets or debts, or their business dealings aren’t above bar, mediation is not recommended.

• One spouse refuses to participate
  Because mediation is voluntary, both spouses must be willing to at least give it a try. Active participation is one of the requirements for making mediation work.

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Divorce mediation is an unregulated profession and there’s no such thing as a certified mediator (other than a term some mediation associations designate to their members), so it’s also critically important to hire a good mediator.

There are four characteristics of an experienced and competent mediator for divorce:

1. The ability to expertly guide two opposing parties through a complex negotiation and ultimately to settlement while remaining neutral at all times;
2. The ability to create a series of settlement options for the parties to discuss and consider based on the mediator’s involvement with a variety of other cases similar to theirs;
3. A command of the complex financial matters surrounding divorce;
4. A comprehensive knowledge of and ability to remain current on the issues that may impact a couple’s divorce agreement.

Some attorneys feel that attending law school provides them with the skills they need in order to practice mediation. But while they may have a grasp of family law matters, they may not know how to be an effective mediator or remain fully neutral. They also may not have the financial acumen required to resolve the many complex financial issues surrounding a divorce dispute.

The key is to choose a mediator who has been professionally trained, knows the issues that need resolution, is truly neutral, has mediated hundreds of cases and is skilled in resolving the complex financial matters surrounding divorce.

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Going through a major life event such as divorce is a significant and stressful experience. It’s not only emotionally devastating, but the divorce process itself can be long, drawn-out and destructive to everyone involved, including your children.

In divorce, no one wins. But how you move through – and eventually beyond a divorce is your choice. So wouldn’t you want to choose the divorce option that’s peaceful, cost-effective and best for you and your kids? Of course you would!

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No other divorce option comes close to offering the benefits of mediation.

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In this post, you’ll learn about the biggest advantages of mediation including:

• Mediation enables a divorcing couple to resolve their divorce issues out of court.
• Divorce mediation is the most child-focused of all divorce options.
• Mediation can help you get through your divorce in less time, with less stress, less conflict, and at a lower cost than a lawyer-driven divorce litigation or a collaborative divorce.
• Divorce mediation is the most flexible of the divorce methods, allowing you to control the pace of your divorce and the terms of your settlement.
• Divorce mediators empower you to create an agreement that meets your unique needs, allowing each of you to get what you want, need and deserve in order to move forward with your lives.
• Mediation enables you to have an amicable divorce.

Once you’ve read this post, you’ll understand all the pros of mediation and why it’s the smartest and most dignified way to divorce.

Ready to learn about the benefits of divorce mediation?

Let’s dive in…

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What is mediation?

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While some people think mediation is relatively new, it’s actually been around for a very long time. Mediation is an alternative dispute resolution process that was first used by the ancient Greeks nearly 1,500 years ago as a means to settle disputes between village members. With the first recorded case of mediation occurring in 533 A.D. or C.E.

Two villagers on opposite sides of an issue would enlist the help of the village elder to aid them in resolving their dispute. Through active discussion and debate, the elder would help the two parties move towards consensus and ultimately, an agreement. The elder would note the solution reached by he and the parties. And the parties would then move forward peacefully, having come to a mutually agreeable resolution.

Since those early days mediation work has evolved. It’s now being used to resolve a wide variety of topics that range from a simple argument between two neighbors all the way up to helping diplomats to end wars.

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How does mediation apply to divorce?

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Following the lead of the ancient Greeks, the parties (you and your divorcing spouse) will bring your disagreement (you want to end your marriage) to a knowledgeable, professional, and neutral mediator who will guide you both to a mutually agreeable solution for your disagreement (the solution being a divorce) using a variety of negotiation techniques.

During your time together, the divorce mediator will actively engage the two of you in a series of discussions on all the necessary subjects. They will help identify the relevant issues that pertain to your unique situation. Listen to your goals, needs, and concerns.

And ultimately help you come to all and agreements required to peacefully end your marriage.

You’ll cover divorce topics such as:

• A plan for parenting time and child custody arrangements for co-parenting your children post-divorce;
• The financial support each of you will provide your children (child support);
• The division of your marital assets and liabilities (also known as equitable distribution or community property depending on the state you live in);
• And how much and for how long you will pay or receive alimony (also known in some states as spousal support, maintenance, or spousal maintenance).

As you come to a divorce agreement, a document called a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) will be drafted by the mediator and will contain all of the agreements made during mediation sessions on each of the four topics as well as a host of other issues related to your situation. One spouse cannot “win” at the expense of the other as resolutions must emerge from the mediation process with a settlement created and acceptable to both of you.

In addition to discussing the issues necessary to end your marriage, the mediator can also help you resolve other matters such as how to tell the children you’re getting a divorce, what religion the children will be raised in, who will care for the family pet, etc. It can even assist you with your transition into life after divorce.

And if you work with a mediation team that offers a comprehensive divorce mediation process, it can enable you to complete the steps to divorce peacefully, fairly and cost-effectively.

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What are the benefits of mediation?

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Now that you know what mediation is and what it’s capable of resolving, let’s take a closer look at the 10 most compelling advantages of mediation for divorce.

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One of the biggest benefits of divorce mediation is that it’s more peaceful

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By its very nature, divorce can get heated. But just because you’ve made the decision to end your marriage doesn’t mean it has to turn into an all-out war. Instead of hiring two lawyers to battle on your behalf and represent only your interests, hire one mediator focused on maintaining the peace and focusing on solutions that benefit both parties.

And your children.

Unlike a litigated divorce, in the mediation process, there is no win or lose, taking sides, us versus them. The focus remains on respectful dialog and mutually agreeable problem-solving. Instead of who can shout the loudest or bully the other party into giving them what they want.

Mediators encourage couples to put away the hurt feelings of the past, focus on the future and move on with their lives. Instead of prolonging a court litigation battle in the name of “winning.”

Whatever “winning” means when it comes to divorce…

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Why is mediation advantageous? Because it puts your children first

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There’s no question divorce is hard on you. But it’s even harder on your kids. Imagine taking all the stress they undoubtedly feel about an uncertain future and the worries about where they’ll live, coupled with the feeling like this was somehow their fault. And put them in the middle of a family law attorney-driven divorce.

With each letter, phone call, demand, and argument sent back and forth between your divorce lawyers, the process becomes more and more adversarial. And soon you and your spouse may be so busy fighting you’ll have no time to focus on your children. Let alone agree on what’s best for them.

So off to court proceedings you’ll go…

Do you really want your child taking the stand in a family law court being forced to answer the question, “Do you want to live with your mother or your father?” That’s exactly what could happen in traditional litigation if you don’t mediate.

Divorce mediators treat you as parents. Not as litigants. Every decision in mediation is made with one thing in mind: How will this impact the children?

When you spend your time focusing on the kids instead of trying to exact revenge on your soon-to-be-ex through your divorce negotiations, marital issues get resolved much faster and potential arguments are often avoided.

Remember, after you’re divorced, you’ll no longer be husband and wife, but you will still (and always) be mom and dad.

So do what’s best for your children and mediate your divorce.

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Another of the benefits of mediation in divorce is that it takes less time and is more efficient

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It’s no surprise the family court systems are overwhelmed. State budget cuts. Hiring freezes. And an ever-increasing workload. Getting a court date could take up to a year.

Now try and get two divorce lawyers to also agree to meet on the date and time the courts gave you. Throw your busy schedules into the mix and you’ve got a scheduling nightmare on your hands. Before you know it, your divorce could take two to three years! Time you’ll spend waiting around. Unable to move on with your life.

Stuck living together. In limbo. Not knowing what your settlement is going to look like or when you’ll get your divorce decree.

Talk about stressful!

Mediation, on the other hand, is much more efficient.

And can take as little as two to three months.

Because you will be fully in control, by using divorce mediation, you can more quickly end your marriage, begin the healing process and move forward with your life. No trying to coordinate schedules with family law divorce attorneys or a judge. Or waiting around for the court process to dictate when you can come in.

You’ll move through the process as quickly or slowly as you wish. Taking as little or as much time as you need to resolve all of the issues necessary.

No divorce attorney required.

Courts love a mediated divorce. Because all issues are already resolved, couples can usually get their divorce finalized in a matter of weeks. And that’s it.

So ask yourself: Do you want your divorce to take two to three years or two to three months?

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One of the mediation benefits is that it’s more cost-effective than hiring attorneys for divorce

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Fact: Mediation is less expensive than typical divorce proceedings using attorneys.

The Wall Street Journal reported that the average cost of a “friendly” attorney divorce is between $27,000 and $32,000. And that’s if all “goes well.” If it doesn’t (and let’s face it – not many attorney-driven divorces do), that cost range becomes $78,000 to $200,000.

Do you have that kind of money to spend on your divorce? Even if you did, do you want to?

To start, most divorce lawyers require an initial retainer of between $5,000 and $10,000 per person depending upon the complexity of your case and how well you and your spouse get along. So before you even negotiate your first point, you’re divorce cost will be $10,000 to $20,000. By the time things wrap up, you could be looking at tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars more to get your divorce.

One of the advantages of mediation is that both spouses will work with one mediator who is dedicated to helping them both reach a resolution as quickly and efficiently as possible.

The total average cost of mediation is thousands less than a lawyer-driven divorce.

And some mediators don’t require a retainer. You just pay as you go. Or, better yet, you might find a mediator who offers a flat fee so you can know up-front exactly what your mediation will cost from start to finish.

Why is mediation so cost-effective?

First, you’re working with one mediator instead of two divorce lawyers. So you’ve already cut the number of professionals involved in half. Second, there’s no back and forth between attorneys. All communication is done in real-time, between all parties, and out of court. Allowing you to resolve things faster thus keeping costs in check. Finally, because mediation is about problem-solving and agreement building instead of each attorney trying to prove a point and “win” something for their side, solutions are reached much more quickly.

Less time to case completion equals much lower costs for you.

By choosing to mediate your divorce, you’ll be able to put your own kids through college instead of your attorneys’ kids.

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“Divorce lawyers stoke anger and fear in their clients, knowing that as long as the conflicts remain unresolved, the revenue stream will keep flowing.” – Craig Fergusen

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Another benefit of mediation: It’s empowering and fair

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When you hire a divorce lawyer, you’re giving up control of your future to a complete stranger. Sending them off to make decisions that will impact you and your children for the rest of your lives. While you sit around waiting for an e-mail or phone call with the results of the negotiations.

“It’s the best you can expect to get,” you’ll be told. “I wouldn’t argue for more if I were you,” your attorney will say. So you sign the papers even though you don’t think it’s a fair deal, but you don’t want it to get any worse.

In family mediation, you are in complete control of your future.

And you don’t need to involve lawyers if you don’t want to.

You’re both empowered to engage in an active agreement-making process. And make choices that are in your mutual best interests and the best interests of your children. Allowing you both to achieve your intended goals. And feel good about the agreements you made.

With no regrets.

As opposed to the traditional attorney-driven “win-lose” model that is based on positions such as, “You tell my no-good husband/wife I have to get at least $X a month in alimony or they’ll never see the kids again!” One of you might get what you want by sheer brute force. While the other will be resentful that they gave in. That’s not empowering or fair in the slightest.

Take charge of your future and mediate your uncontested divorce instead.

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One of the benefits of divorce mediation is that a successful mediation has a higher rate of compliance

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Do you prefer to be told what to do? Or would you prefer to have a say in what happens? If you’re like most people, you’d rather have a say. I mean really. Who likes being told what to do?

In the first option, you and your spouse use attorneys who, by default, are overbearing in nature. They claim to know what’s best for you and what you deserve. And they’re going to fight to try to get it for you. No matter what the cost.

But what if your attorney fighting for something you don’t care about or want in the first place? Or you and your spouse can’t agree on anything so you have no choice but to go to divorce court and take your chances. Only to end up with an agreement neither of you is happy with.

In mediation, you’ll both have a say in what’s important. In what’s going to be discussed. And in which order it’s going to be resolved. Doing so allows you to come to an agreement that reflects your unique wants and needs and the needs of your children. Covering the issues that are important to both of you.

Making it much more likely you’ll both be satisfied with the terms of your agreement and adhere to it now, and in the future.

To give you some food for thought:

With respect to compliance with the agreement and re-litigation, 80% of divorcing spouses [who mediated] reported compliance, with only 60% of the adversarial parties.

Source: Divorce Mediation: Reflections on a Decade of Research by J. Pearson and N. Thoennes

It’s hard to not comply with something you had a hand in creating, don’t you think?

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Another of the advantages of mediation is that mediation results in more thorough and practical agreements

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As you’ve just learned, having a say in what your settlement agreement looks like can go a long way towards both fairness and compliance. But mediation can also go a long way toward getting you an agreement you can actually use.

Unlike in a traditional process where it’s all about interpreting, arguing, and crafting agreements based strictly on law or money, mediation allows you to create an agreement that is based on your situation and your family’s unique needs.

In mediation, you will discuss, agree on and have the mediator draft a document that covers all necessary divorce issues such as child support and how you will divide a 401K plan. But you’ll also be able to discuss and resolve other important life matters such as how your children can be introduced to your ex’s new significant other, how your family pet will be cared for, etc. And language can be included in your agreement to cover all of these things. Because while who gets the house or how much alimony you’ll have to pay or will receive are important topics to discuss and agree on, there’s much more to a divorce than just that.

In addition to the required topics that need resolving, divorce also needs to address all of life’s other challenges and responsibilities. Unlike the traditional process, mediation can help you discuss, decide on and plan for every type of situation – now and in the future.

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Why is mediation advantageous? It’s a more personalized and dignified experience

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Ever set foot in a courthouse? Big marble columns. Cold tile floors. Courtrooms that echo with the sound of your voice. It’s highly impersonal. And the people in there? They run around like they’re in some sort of race. Hustling from room to room and case-to-case, shouting as they go.

Try as they might, courthouse staff and judges are so overburdened with caseloads they simply can’t get to know each divorce litigant and defendant personally. They need to get you in, out, and on your way, because they’ve got 15 more just like you on the docket over the next 8 hours.

“Next!”

You’ll get to know your mediator and he’ll get to know you. He’ll take the time to learn about your lives. Your children’s lives. And your goals for the future. Doing so allows your mediator to understand what matters most to each of you and your family. And to suggest options that may be applicable in your unique situation. All over the course of as much time as you need to come to agreement on all relevant issues.

Mediation truly is a kinder, more dignified, human process.

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Another reason to mediate your divorce: Mediation is more convenient and flexible

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When you work within the confines of the traditional divorce process, you’re forced to show up when and where you’re told. There’s no messing around. And if you don’t, you’ll have an awful lot of problems.

On the other hand, mediation allows you, your spouse, and the mediator to select a day and time that works for all of you. In addition to the scheduling flexibility, some mediators also offer online divorce mediation services for location flexibility.

You may travel frequently for your job and wonder how you’re ever going to be able to fit a mediation session in since you’re always on the road. Or perhaps you and your husband or wife live or work far apart geographically and the logistics of being in the same place at the same time are all but impossible. Or, you may simply not be comfortable sitting next to your soon-to-be ex in the same room.

Online mediation can happen anywhere.

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And finally, one of the biggest benefits of divorce mediation is that it’s a private and confidential process

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Most people forget that divorce litigation in court is a public forum. Anyone and I mean anyone, can sit in the back of a courtroom and watch the proceedings unfold in your divorce case.

Your friends. Your family. That neighbor who knows everybody’s business. (You know exactly which neighbor I’m talking about.) The breakup of your marriage is on full display. And your dirty laundry hung out for all to see. And before long, you’ll have a full-blown circus on your hands.

Divorce through the traditional process is very public and very humiliating.

Mediation, on the other hand, is completely private.

No one knows what’s being discussed except you, your spouse, and the mediator. Everything is decided in the confines of the mediator’s office or via private communications. All e-mail communications, meeting notes, case files, and agreements remain secure and only shared with those you’ve given the mediator explicit permission to share with. Mediation is also protected in the United States by the Uniform Mediation Act. Making all conversations privileged and confidential except under extraordinary circumstances.

You can feel comfortable and free to discuss almost anything during a divorce mediation session.

You’re going to be sharing the most intimate details of your life with your chosen professional. So unless you enjoy putting on a show for the entire world to see, be like Bill and Melinda Gates or Jeff and MacKenzie Bezos, and choose the private and confidential process of mediation.

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How to know if mediation is a viable option for your divorce

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It takes two people to get married but only one to get a divorce. So no matter which path forward you take, you will eventually wind up divorced It simply becomes a choice as to what divorce method you use to get there.

Knowing you have a choice, you’ll want to select the divorce method that allows you to have the most peaceful, fair, child-focused, and cost-effective divorce possible. And that choice is mediation. No other divorce option comes close to offering the advantages that mediation provides. Almost anyone can mediate.

All it takes are these things:

1. You are both willing to voluntarily attend and actively participate in mediation.If only one party wants to mediate but the other party does not, then, unfortunately, mediation will not be a viable option for divorce.
2. You are both comfortable and interested in making your own decisions.Because mediation follows the principles of self-determination, couples acknowledge that they will be in complete control of the choices made regarding their divorce settlement. The mediator is a neutral third party who will help identify each relevant divorce issue and bring options to the table but will not give legal advice. Or tell either of you what to do.
3. You are both mentally capable of making your own decisions.Your mediator will provide you with information you need in order to make the decisions required. But you must be of sound mind and have the mental capacity to make them. If either party is mentally incapacitated, mediation will not be a viable option.
4. You are both willing to be transparent and engage in a good-faith negotiation.Because mediation is a transparent process, you will both need to be prepared to engage in good-faith negotiation. That means you’ll need to reveal and openly disclose all relevant information, whether financial or otherwise, to the mediator and to your spouse. And ensure that the information is accurate, complete, and truthful to the best of your knowledge. If either party is hiding assets, defrauding the other, or not being honest, you will not be able to mediate.

High conflict or low conflict, whether only one of you controlled the finances or you both balanced the checkbook, kids or no kids, as long as you and your husband or wife meet the guidelines listed above, you are good candidates to use divorce mediation.

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What are the benefits of divorce mediation – conclusion and next steps:

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So there you have it! You now know:

• How mediation is the most peaceful and child-focused of all divorce options.
• How mediation can help you get through your divorce in less time, with less stress, and at a lower cost than a lawyer-driven divorce.
• How mediation is the most flexible of the divorce methods, allowing you to control the pace and divorce terms of your settlement.
• How mediation empowers you to create a fair and thorough agreement that meets your unique needs and the unique needs of your children.

Hopefully, you learned enough about the advantages of mediation to understand why it’s the best option for divorce.

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So what now? Where do you go from here?

It all really depends on where you are in the process.

• For example, if your wife or husband is already aware of your decision to divorce and he/she is willing to proceed, your next step might be to suggest mediation in hopes they’ll agree to mediate.
• On the other hand, if you both already agree on using mediation, your next step is to hire an expert mediator to guide you through your divorce negotiations.

Luckily, you found us!

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Frequently Asked Questions

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Mediation is an unregulated profession in the United States, and every mediator has their own approach. We can only speak to how divorce mediation works with us.

Strategy Session

Our mediation process starts with a strategy meeting – the first meeting between you, your spouse, and Joe, your mediator, to set goals and develop the plan for your negotiations. During this meeting, he will share what you can expect throughout the process and tips for how to get an optimal outcome. You and your spouse will each have the opportunity to voice your most pressing concerns and goals for mediation.

Joe will then work with you both to develop a tailored plan for addressing each issue throughout your negotiations, determining the most effective sequence for resolving matters regarding your children, finances, property, and future.

Having a complete financial picture allows Joe to understand your situation and create options to explore during negotiations that best serve your family’s needs. At the end of the strategy session, Joe will walk you through what financial information is needed prior to each mediation session.

Mediation Sessions

After completing your initial financial work, you’ll schedule your first session. During this and subsequent meetings as needed, Joe will help you work through and resolve all necessary aspects of your divorce including a parenting plan, child support, alimony, and division of property and debts.

He will listen to each of your wants, needs, concerns, and goals, formulate ideas, create options, and work together with you to develop fair and equitable solutions. Drawing on his financial expertise, he’ll provide guidance about the financial matters relating to your divorce so you know what your financial picture will look like moving forward.

In areas where agreement proves challenging, Joe will employ various conflict resolution techniques to help you and your spouse communicate more effectively, understand each other’s interests, and negotiate toward mutually agreeable solutions.

After each session, Joe will outline specific tasks to prepare for your next meeting – whether that’s gathering financial documents or considering options discussed. This step-by-step approach keeps the process manageable and productive. You can easily submit all documents through our secure online portal.

Drafting of the Agreement

Once all necessary issues have been resolved and your negotiations have concluded, Joe will draft a comprehensive document called a Memorandum of Understanding detailing all agreements, along with a host of other supporting documents. This paperwork will outline the terms of your divorce.

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Mediation can resolve all of the issues necessary for a couple’s divorce including, but not limited to:

• A parenting plan outlining parental responsibilities and time sharing arrangements for co-parenting children post-divorce. (some refer to this as custody)
• Child support. (which is the financial support each parent will provide the children)
• The division of marital assets and liabilities. (also referred to as either equitable distribution or community property, depending on the state where the divorce is taking place)
• And how much, and for how long alimony will be paid or received. (alimony may also be referred to as either spousal support, maintenance, or spousal maintenance, depending on the state where the couple is getting a divorce)

Along with the four main issues listed above, mediation can help resolve a host of other important issues related to your unique situation or circumstances.

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Every mediator’s process (if they have one) is different, so we can only speak to how long divorce mediation takes working with us.

Most couples complete their mediation in 3 – 5 sessions, meeting with Joe every other week. On average, divorce mediation takes 2 – 3 months. The speed of our divorce mediation process is largely within your control. Your timeline will depend on the complexities of your case, how quickly you complete the required financial work between sessions, ease in coordinating your schedules, and pace in reaching decisions.

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Every private mediator has their own fee structure, and divorce mediation cost and fees vary significantly based on the experience and skill level of the mediator, the scope of their mediation services and individual case complexities. They also vary from state-to-state.

Our mediation fees are tailored to each couple’s unique situation and case complexity. Even our most comprehensive packages typically cost less than what you’d spend on two attorney retainers.

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Our sessions take place via Zoom. Online mediation provides a flexible, convenient and efficient dispute resolution solution. In fact, we pioneered online divorce mediation and have been successfully mediating in this format since 2011.

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There is no legal requirement that you must have a divorce attorney, and many people specifically choose mediation because they want to divorce without a lawyer. However, depending on their professional background and approach, some mediators do require each spouse to hire a lawyer to consult with throughout mediation.

While attorney consultation is not required in our mediation process, we fully support clients who wish to seek legal counsel at any stage. Our focus is on empowering you to make informed decisions in whatever way works best for your situation.

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No! You do not need to have everything decided before starting mediation. The only thing you need to agree on is the decision itself to mediate your divorce. In fact, many couples specifically wait until mediation to negotiate the issues.

Divorce is a complex matter, and you may not “know what you don’t know” when it comes to the issues you need to identify, discuss and resolve in order to come to a complete agreement. By working with Joe, you can be assured that everything will be discussed thoroughly – in the proper order and given the necessary time and attention it deserves.

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Whether you are divorcing or separating, our mediation process is the same. The difference is in what you choose to do with your mediation agreement after the process is completed.

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Starting mediation with us begins with a simple first step – scheduling an initial meeting for you and your spouse. This meeting gives you a chance to share your situation, ask questions, and learn about our mediation process in a private, no-pressure setting. It also helps us understand how we can best support your unique needs.

** Available to couples whose divorce or separation will take place in California, Illinois, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, or Washington State.

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You and your children will benefit when you choose divorce mediation.

Mediation is more Peaceful: A mediator guides couples to attack problems, not each other – fostering respectful dialog and win-win solutions. This approach paves the way for a peaceful, amicable divorce that benefits both spouses and their children.

Fair and Equitable: One party cannot “win” at the expense of the other as resolutions must emerge from the process with a divorce settlement created and acceptable to both parties.

Less Expensive: The cost of divorce mediation is significantly less than traditional divorce litigation, the collaborative divorce process, or a court trial.

Better for Children: Children aren’t caught in the middle of a confrontational family court process or traumatic heated custody battle. Instead, parents work together to resolve the issues in a way that’s best for their family. A non-adversarial approach fosters more agreement, improved communication, better parenting plans and a better co-parenting relationship.

Better Results: Couples who mediate are more satisfied with the terms of their divorce because they were mutually agreed upon.

Dignified: Instead of the cold, traditional court process where a couple is treated like a case file or docket number, mediation is a kinder, more human process. Divorce mediation allows couples to end their marriage while maintaining self-respect and dignity.

Private and Confidential: In a private mediation session, everything is confidential. No one will know what’s being discussed except the two spouses and their mediator. Unlike a litigated divorce, where everything submitted to the family law court is part of the public record.

Divorce Faster: The pace of the process is controlled by the parties, instead of being at the mercy of a lawyer’s or a judge’s schedule.

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Ultimately, the payment arrangement is up to the couple to decide together. Most frequently, couples split the mediation costs equally between them, as the mediator works with both spouses together to help them reach agreements. This 50-50 split often feels fair to most people since they each benefit from the process.

Another approach is to share mediation costs in a ratio based on each spouse’s income. For instance, if one spouse earns twice as much as the other, they might pay two-thirds of the cost while the lower-earning spouse pays one-third. This income-based split can make mediation more accessible for couples with significant income differences. Occasionally, one spouse may choose to pay the entire cost of mediation, though this is less common.

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No, a mediator cannot give legal advice. Some people think if they hire a divorce mediation attorney, which is another way of saying a lawyer who practices mediation, that the “attorney-mediator” can provide legal advice.

But that is not the case. Because when they are in the role of a divorce mediator, a lawyer cannot dispense legal advice – regardless of their professional background.

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There’s a lot more to these divorce methods and how they work, but here are just a few of the many differences between divorce mediation vs a lawyer.

In attorney-driven divorces, each spouse hires their own respective attorney to represent them.

The two lawyers will argue back and forth in court on issues of child custody and a parenting plan, division of property, alimony and child support. Each divorce lawyer will create strategies to fight and weaken the other party’s position in order to “win” the divorce case for their respective client – even if it’s at the detriment of the other spouse, the couple’s children or the overall health of the family unit.

Traditional divorce litigation using attorneys is adversarial, lengthy, and expensive.

In divorce mediation, both spouses work with one mediator.

The divorce mediator does not take sides and does not give legal advice – they are a neutral third party. The mediator helps both spouses communicate, negotiate directly (privately and out of court) and resolve all issues that pertain to their divorce. Couples have the opportunity to voice their individual concerns, be heard and have direct input into the terms of their divorce settlement agreement.

In mediation, there is no “win-lose” as a skilled divorce mediator helps the couple reach fair and amicable solutions that prioritize the well-being of children. Mediation is a more peaceful, less costly, confidential divorce method that takes significantly less time and produces better outcomes.

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There are many differences between divorce mediation and collaborative law including cost, time to complete and approach.

The Collaborative Law Process is a hybrid between a traditional attorney-led divorce and divorce mediation.

Each party retains their own respective lawyer trained in the collaborative process to represent them. Both spouses and their respective counsel sign a contract called a “participation agreement” that states that they are all committed to using cooperative techniques rather than combative tactics to resolve custody, support, etc.

In the Collaborative Process, a series of meetings take place between both spouses and both lawyers and possibly other outside professionals such as a divorce coach or therapist, child specialist, accountants or financial planners as needed to negotiate and try to come to agreement on the issues. If agreement cannot successfully be reached on all relevant divorce issues using the Collaborative Divorce Process, the lawyers will be disqualified from representing the two parties as they continue into the litigation process.

While for some problematic cases, Collaborative Process can be worth a try before resorting to divorce litigation, but it can get very expensive and drawn-out, and there are no guarantees of success.

In the process of mediation, there are three participants working together in direct negotiations: each spouse and one mediator.

The mediator is neutral and does not represent either spouse. They help the two parties negotiate directly to resolve all required issues pertaining to their divorce. Couples have direct input into the terms of their agreement. In mediation, there is no “us against them” as the goal of mediation is to help the parties reach an agreement they are both satisfied with and that keeps their children front and center.

Mediation delivers better outcomes for divorcing couples and their kids, takes less time to complete and is less expensive than a collaborative divorce.

Learn more about divorce mediator vs collaborative law.

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During the negotiation phase of the process, mediation is not yet binding. But once all issues in your divorce are resolved and agreed upon, drafted into a proper document by a qualified professional, signed by both parties (both spouses), and approved by the courts, the agreements made will become binding in a couple’s divorce decree.

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After a couple reaches agreement on all issues in mediation, the final step is completing the formal court process to end the marriage. However, the time to finalize a divorce after mediation varies significantly by state and sometimes even by county, as each jurisdiction has its own requirements.

For example, in New Jersey, there is no waiting period. The process simply requires the couple’s filing professional to submit the court paperwork and await a court date, which typically takes 8 to 12 weeks. In contrast, California has a mandatory 6-month waiting period. This means that even after completing all required paperwork, couples must wait an additional 6 months before receiving their final judgment of divorce.

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Divorce mediation is a viable option for couples who meet all of the following criteria:

• Couples who want an experienced professional to help them identify and discuss the issues while retaining full control over the decisions they will make and full control over their settlement agreement;

An experienced divorce mediator will help the parties identify the issues and present a number of possible solutions, but will not give the parties legal advice or tell either party what to do.

• Couples who are willing to engage in an honest and good faith negotiation;

Mediation is a transparent process so both parties must be willing to openly disclose all relevant information, whether financial or otherwise, to the mediator and to the other party and ensure the information is accurate, complete and truthful to the best of their knowledge. If either party is hiding assets or defrauding the other, mediation should not be used.

• Couples where both spouses are willing to voluntarily attend and actively participate in mediation;

If one party wants to mediate but the other does not, mediation will not be a viable option for that couple’s divorce.

• Spouses who are both mentally capable of making their own decisions;

Each party must be of sound mind and have the capacity to think, reason and understand for him/herself. Learn who we help.

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• One spouse is incapacitated
  Mediation centers on “self-determination” – the ability of both parties to make decisions in their own best interests. If they’re mentally incapacitated in any way, mediation will not be a viable option.

• There’s domestic violence or safety concerns
  If there’s a restraining order in effect, it may make mediating impossible. Or maybe there’s such a significant power imbalance that one spouse is afraid to express their true needs for fear of retribution from the other side. If a party has safety concerns, mediation will not be a viable option.

• A party has concerns that assets or debts are being concealed.
  Mediation is a good faith negotiation and requires transparency. So if one party is concerned the other is hiding assets or debts, or their business dealings aren’t above bar, mediation is not recommended.

• One spouse refuses to participate
  Because mediation is voluntary, both spouses must be willing to at least give it a try. Active participation is one of the requirements for making mediation work.

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Divorce mediation is an unregulated profession and there’s no such thing as a certified mediator (other than a term some mediation associations designate to their members), so it’s also critically important to hire a good mediator.

There are four characteristics of an experienced and competent mediator for divorce:

1. The ability to expertly guide two opposing parties through a complex negotiation and ultimately to settlement while remaining neutral at all times;
2. The ability to create a series of settlement options for the parties to discuss and consider based on the mediator’s involvement with a variety of other cases similar to theirs;
3. A command of the complex financial matters surrounding divorce;
4. A comprehensive knowledge of and ability to remain current on the issues that may impact a couple’s divorce agreement.

Some attorneys feel that attending law school provides them with the skills they need in order to practice mediation. But while they may have a grasp of family law matters, they may not know how to be an effective mediator or remain fully neutral. They also may not have the financial acumen required to resolve the many complex financial issues surrounding a divorce dispute.

The key is to choose a mediator who has been professionally trained, knows the issues that need resolution, is truly neutral, has mediated hundreds of cases and is skilled in resolving the complex financial matters surrounding divorce.

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