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A better way to divorce

By partnering with us as your divorce mediation specialist, we'll help you separate peacefully, with a fair agreement that balances the interests of both parties – and prioritizes your children’s well-being.

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Our track record speaks for itself

98% Case Resolution Rate
16+ Years in Practice
1,000+ Agreements Reached
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Why divorce with us is different

Divorce is tough. You know it. And we know it.

Joe witnessed how destructive lawyer-led litigation could be during his parents’ divorce. It dragged on for years and his dad, hurt and angry from the process, disappeared for good.

Cheryl experienced the emotional devastation of divorce first-hand, separating from her ex-husband years ago.

Because we’ve experienced the pain of divorce, we know – better than anyone – how to get you through to the other side. 

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  • The benefits
  • Divorce mediation with real financial expertise
  • A proven process
  • A thorough agreement
  • Emotional support
  • Tailored solutions
  • Convenient, online sessions
  • Unlimited sessions, one customized flat fee

With us as your divorce mediation specialist, you’ll get:

The peace of mind that comes from knowing your negotiations were fair, thorough, and handled properly. Giving you a solid foundation as you move forward into the next phase of your life.

Click the links in this section to learn more about what sets us apart.

Divorce mediation with real financial expertise

Divorce is mostly financial. With us, you get Joe: a skilled divorce mediator with a strong financial acumen.

For over 25 years, Joe has leveraged his expertise in negotiation, finance, and interpersonal relationships to help individuals, couples, and corporations resolve complex issues through mediation.

Not only does he have a command of the parental and financial decisions that need to be made (parenting plan, child support, alimony, property division,) but he is well-versed in the specific nuances of these issues in all states we practice in.

Joe tailors solutions for each client and situation. He has mediated divorces across all demographics and complexity levels, facilitating over a thousand private, out-of-court agreements.

A proven process

Divorce can quickly spiral out of control. Our proven process will keep your negotiations efficient and productive.

You’ll start with a Strategy Session where Joe develops a plan with you for your negotiations and shares steps for an optimal outcome. You'll get a Mediation Roadmap outlining important milestones to keep things on track. And throughout mediation, you'll have direct access to Joe, our client portal, toolkit, and secure file sharing system.

Our approach provides you with the support and resources you need to complete the mediation process effectively.

A thorough agreement

Skipping important details in your divorce agreement can lead to future disputes and misunderstandings. Unlike mediators who provide only basic write-ups, our detailed Memorandum of Understanding captures every decision made during mediation with clear, actionable steps forward.

And we don’t just tackle the immediate challenges of your divorce. We help you anticipate speed bumps and plan for future changes in circumstances affecting both you and your kids. Your written divorce agreement will be thorough, easy to understand and can even address future scenarios and situations.

Emotional support

Emotions drive divorce. That’s why Divorce Coach Cheryl Dillon will be available to you and your spouse throughout the mediation process to provide support for the emotional challenges of divorce. 
 
Coaching can help you separate your emotions from the big decisions required, overcome conflict and even improve interactions with your spouse during and after the mediation process.
 
Getting through divorce is easier with the support of a coach.

Tailored solutions

Creative solutions customized to your unique needs and circumstances.

Every couple’s situation is different – and so are the complexities of the issues they face. 

That’s why we don’t believe in a cookie cutter approach. 

Instead, we develop customized solutions to address your specific situation. Resulting in outcomes best suited to your finances, your family, and your future.

Convenient, online sessions

Traditional mediation means fighting traffic and spending time in sterile office spaces. Our online format lets you join sessions from any private space you choose.
 
We know how difficult life is - adding a divorce into the mix only compounds the stress. So in 2011, we combined our high-quality divorce mediation service with user-friendly technology, launching our online divorce mediation format.
 
Online mediation is real, hands-on divorce mediation. And a convenient way to negotiate all the terms of your divorce from the comfort of your home, office or private space of your choosing.

Unlimited sessions, one customized flat fee

Our priority is helping you reach an equitable agreement that prioritizes your kids, preserves your wealth, and sets the stage for a positive new beginning. And we’ll stop at nothing to get you there.

Lawyers and other mediators typically bill hourly or limit the number of hours in their flat fee.

But not us!

You’ll get unlimited sessions for one customized flat fee. So you can take the time you need to reach a resolution – without having to watch the clock, worrying about mounting costs.

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How we compare

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Lawyer-led litigation
online divorce
Win-win outcomes
Financial expertise
Flat fee
A process that prioritizes the well-being of your family
Cooperation
Emotional support
Thorough written agreements
TESTIMONIALS

What our clients are saying

Fran & Bobformer clients

“Cheryl and Joe are consummate professionals and they made a really awful and difficult time far more palatable. They are kind, smart, patient, and competent.

We do not recommend divorce. But we recommend Joe and Cheryl, highly. We are grateful they were there for us.”

Rickformer client

“You know what works and you know how to mediate. I can’t thank you enough for getting me through this tough time with humor and ease.”

Melissaformer client

“You both really understand all of the dynamics involved in the divorce process, and really have your clients best interest in mind. The step-by-step process broken into little sections was awesome. It made this big, giant, overwhelming task comprehensible. I'm so grateful. You have a wonderful process in place.”

Diane & Jimformer clients

"Working with you felt much less daunting and overwhelming. You made it as easy and quick as possible without spending 10's of thousands of dollars on attorney fees."

Tiffanyformer client

"You are genuinely nice people. You were empathetic toward us. I felt like you really understood what we had to go through and you guided us every step of the way.

I felt your support 100% of the time."

WHO WE ARE

Meet the Equitable Mediation team

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Joe Dillon, MBA

DIVORCE MEDIATOR & FOUNDER

Joe became a divorce mediator to help your family avoid what happened to his.

Joe earned a master’s degree in finance and was trained in negotiation and mediation at some of the world's most prestigious institutions. When it comes to the issues of divorce, there’s no level of complexity Joe can’t handle.

Read more about Joe

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Cheryl Dillon, CPC

DIVORCE COACH & CO-FOUNDER

After her own experience of divorce, Cheryl knows how much mediation and coaching can help. 

Cheryl earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology and is a certified life coach. As your coach, she'll help you improve communication, reduce conflict, and develop strategies to cope with the emotional aspects of divorce more effectively.

Read more about Cheryl

Choose to divorce differently

Let us guide you through this pivotal transition. As your mediation specialists, we’ll help you and your spouse work together to reach a peaceful and fair resolution - securing your financial well-being and your family’s future.

Choose to divorce differently

Let us guide you through this pivotal transition. As your mediation specialists, we’ll help you and your spouse work together to reach a peaceful and fair resolution - securing your financial well-being and your family’s future.